When Permission Marketing Becomes an Interruption

A couple of weeks ago Karol Gajda and Adam Baker put together a phenomenal package of business resources at a you’d-be-a-fool-if-you-don’t-buy-it price and made it available for 72 hours only.

I chose to be a fool.

There were several reasons why I chose not to ‘invest’ in the package, despite it’s attractive price tag, proving to myself that a deal isn’t a deal, if that’s not what you want.

When I was in college, I received some great advice from another student, who attributed it to his dad, who was a multi-millionaire in India. He said, “If you don’t need something, it’s too expensive for a penny. But, if you need it, it’s a bargain at a hundred bucks.” The package was too expensive by that definition.

Now, don’t get me wrong, the value presented in the package was incredible, but I just didn’t need it at this time. I read the list of resources and I realized that I had an abundance of  similar material from the same authors that I have not either had time or inclination to read, or I haven’t put it to use yet.

A voice in my head said, “Yeah, Rasheed, but look at the price and all you’re getting for it. You can use it when you’re ready.” Ah, the fear of loss, rooted in lack mentality. Sorry, no can do.

Another reason was the fact that the offer was exploiting the same based-in-lack mentality of the target market. I wasn’t interested. I knew it would be a bargain at full price when I was ready to use the information.

Also, there were many things in that package that I would never use, because, either they didn’t relate to what I want in life, or adding more knowledge in that area would not add sufficiently to be worth anything.

But the main reason that I didn’t buy it was that by the time the sale started, I had received several e-mails and blog posts in my RSS reader ‘alerting’ me to be on the look out for it. These emails and blog posts came from the authors whose products were amongst the ones in the package. I know that the authors probably didn’t directly get paid for including their item in the package, but they were affiliates for the package.

I don’t have anything against affiliate marketing. I think, no, I know that it is a great way to market something in a win/win/win situation. The producer, the marketer and the end user all win by the transaction. It is the same concept as the Network Marketing, except for the compensation plan. It is a single level plan instead of a multi-level plan.

In a span of one week, I must have received - I kid you not- at least 50 emails between pre-launch alerts, launch notifications, and last minute i-don’t-want-you-to-miss-out-on-this warnings from various affiliate marketers. One of the authors sent out only one notification with only 12 hours left, with a message that said something to the effect that I would be remiss if I didn’t tell you about this before it was over. Thanks.

Permission Marketing is bound to lose its effectiveness if it goes the same route as the Interruption Marketing.

Am I the only one or are there others who feel this way? What do you think, when does permission marketing becomes interruption marketing?

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Location Independent Lifestyle – Just WTH is it?

There has been a LOT of talk about Location Independent Lifestyle lately, and the general view is that you must create a stream of passive income using the internet and travel around the world to enjoy the location independent lifestyle.

It is a concept that was first romanticized by Tim Ferris in 4 Hour Work Week, then popularized by the blogs like LocationIndependent.com and DigitalNomads.com, and I must agree that I joined the bandwagon with my Present Day Nomads.

But, more than a year and half later, I am sitting here wondering just what the hell is Location Independent Lifestyle?

By definition, it is a lifestyle that enables a person to live and work from anywhere. A hobo is just as location independent as a digital or tech nomad, so is a traveling salesman, an author, a motivational speaker and a musician. I would even argue that Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, and Sir Richard Branson are all location independent.

Location Independence is nothing new. People have been running away to join the circus for generations. Yes, there is something alluring about being able to travel and meet people of all kinds and see the world, and people have been doing it for thousands of years.

It seems to me that the New Location Independence movement professes that Location Independence is the antidote to corporate dominance in our lives. Location Independent People (LIP) claim to be non-conformists who like to tread their own trails.

But if you read the many popular blogs in the location independent niche, you’ll find that they all conform to a similar theme, namely, break away from the 9-5 cubical drudgery, become an affiliate marketer, create a passive income, create your own how to product and get other LIP to affiliate market it for you and live happily ever after. It is like going goth, teenagers who dress and act differently from popular culture to rebel against authority.

One of the dominant trend seems to be a fight for freedom. Freedom from corporate slavery, freedom from materialistic possessions, freedom through entrepreneurship, etc. But freedom is not something you can demand, buy or fight for, it is your birthright and all you have to do is claim it as yours. You claim your freedom by being yourself, by being a critical thinker and by questioning the conventional wisdom, whether it’s ancient convention or new convention. Jonathon Mead wrote an excellent blog post on the subject of freedom yesterday that was a delight to read.

What are your thoughts on the subject? Do you agree? Disagree? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

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Are You Making the Same Mistakes?

A few days ago I wrote a post about getting unstuck, in which I said that the key to getting unstuck is to show up in front of the computer.

I have also found that life works that way some times, no, all the times. I believe that everything you need to live your life with is provided to you before you need it and it shows up in your life at the right moment. Sometimes, because we don’t see it right in front of us, it presents itself again and again.

We call it repeating patterns or recurring themes. We have been told that repeating patterns are indication that we are not learning, that we are making the same mistakes again and again. But, that is just one way to see it.

Another way to see it showed up in my inbox this morning in the form of Notes from the Universe. It said: “Actually, it’s not that there are recurring themes in a lifetime, Rasheed, but that there are recurring choices.”

Isn’t that totally awesome?!

Recurring choices also means recurring opportunities.

One of the recurring choices that I have been making has become painfully evident to me as of late. I wait too long to react to a situation that I know is going to produce an unpleasant effect. Then it is too late, and the undesired effect shows up. I used to see it as a repeating pattern, or a recurring theme in my life and I used to beat myself up for it. But that just made matters worse.

When you beat yourself up, again and again, you become depressed, and that is the worst place from which to make any choices. When you are depressed, you can’t see the bright side of life, and so, you don’t feel like taking bold actions. Heck, you don’t feel like taking any actions. But, unfortunately, you realize soon that inaction is also a form of action.

Eventually, you get mad, because you know that you are capable of more than what you have, capable of more than what you have accomplished. So, you determine to be more disciplined, to practice more will power and plow your way through life. To do whatever it takes, so to speak. But, again, it becomes a recurring theme.

Eventually, you see it for what it is and you make a small change.

Wow! what a difference that small change makes. Now you have stepped out of the “same old, same old.” And as soon as you step out of the same old same old, you see different things, and you see the same things differently. And as if right on cue, things show up right in front of you. It is amazing how one thing leads to another and you end up with exactly what you need.

Yesterday, I found a blog post by Steve Pavlina that describes his writing process. One of the things he said he does is that when an idea hits him, he goes to work on writing as soon as he can, usually within an hour or two at the most. I have found that whenever I use the same approach, I am able to produce good content for my blog, but when I make a note and decide to go back to it, the motivation to write is not there and I don’t get it written. It becomes an idea that I didn’t act up on, and lord knows, there have been ample number of ideas that I didn’t act upon.

Today’s post is a result of my acting in the moment when the inspiration hit me.

I was reading my email and came across a blog entry from my friend Mitch Mitchell, which prompted me to comment on it, so I went to his blog (I was reading the entry in my email app). Then I noted that he had a page on his blog called Quotes I like. I am a big sucker for quotable quotes – I have done two posts using quotes, that are among the most popular on this blog – so naturally, I clicked on it. He has a shit lode of quotes from Stephen Covey (Mitch writes on management issues).

And there I found the quote that prompted me to hop on over to the editor on my blog and start typing. Here is what it said.

“Most people say their main fault is their lack of discipline. On deeper thought, I believe that is not the case. The basic problem is that their priorities have not become deeply planted in their hearts and minds.” — Stephen Covey

So, what is it for you. Lack of discipline or unplanted priorities? Share your thoughts in the comments.

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If You Want More, Become More

The amazingly remarkable Jim Rohn once said something to the effect that if you ever win a million dollars, I hope you become a millionaire fast, or you’ll lose the money.

I am sure you have heard stories of people winning a lottery and then in a very short period of time lose it all. It is because a Million Dollars doesn’t make you a millionaire. A millionaire thinks differently than a broke or poor person.

After a year and a half of blogging, I realized that the reason I am no more closer to my dream than when I first started is because I am no different than I was a year and half ago, specially in terms of personal growth.

While that statement may not be 100% true, it is very true that I have not grown much in terms of living my dream.

I can sit here and talk about my weaknesses and how others who started about the same time as I have gone way ahead of me, as I have done before, or I can focus on the whatever growth I have accomplished. I choose to focus on the later and that in itself is growth and progress.

Also, just this week I took some action to compensate for slow down in my income due to season slow down in my industry. Though I waited linger than I should have, it beats not taking any action, as was the case in the past, and then struggling to catch up when the business starts to pick up.

Einstein defined insanity as doing the same things and expecting different results. I have been insane for too long. It is time regain my sanity and I am already making strides.

How about you? Are you growing personally in the direction of your dreams, or are you being insane? I would love to hear your thoughts on this.

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Is Passive Income Necessary for Nomadic Lifestyle?

Lately there has been a lot of talk about nomadic lifestyle business or internet lifestyle business and similar labels. The gist of these blog posts have been that you’ve got to work your ass off if you want to enjoy these kinds of lifestyle.

They are based on the assumption that the only way you can enjoy a nomadic lifestyle is if you have a stream of passive income. But there are other ways.

I prefer not to substitute the pressures of a corporate based income with an independent self employed business. I prefer to live a life that is stress free and earning an income is but a integral part of life. No more or no less important than anything else.

Can one live a nomadic lifestyle and have an active source of income that is an integral part of their lifestyle? I believe it is possible. As a matter of fact, there are people who are living nomadic lifestyles while running a business of their own.

Sir Richard Branson comes to mind. My friend Darren Lacroix travels the world teaching people how to make a living through public speaking. Joyfully Jobless Barbara Winter believes that when the lines between work and fun are blurred and overlapping, then you can do it from anywhere.

Then are those who have skills that make a portable lifestyle possible. I had long time ago suggested to my friend Sean Ogle that he can play guitar on the streets practically anywhere in the world and make a decent living having fun and travelling. Indeed a lot of people do that all over the world.

Personally, I twist balloons in various forms and am currently making a decent living doing just that. I know I can practically go to any place in the world (or at least the ones I have in mind for visiting, with the exception of top of the Mt Everest) and use that skill to make a living.

Chris and Cherie of Technomadia and Brooke Ferguson of BusinessBackpacker are couple of examples of people who are using the internet to conduct their consulting businesses while being nomadic or location independent.

What do you think? Is it possible to have a Nomadic lifestyle without having a nest egg or a passive income business? What are some of the other ideas that you have that might work for a nomadic lifestyle? Are you currently using one that works for you?

I would love to hear from you.

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